Pretty sure there comes a time now when you recall all the parties you went to before. You think of all those pretty ladies you talk to and ladies you got to hang out with the rest of the night. You remember all the things you can do which excite you. We cannot hide the fact that when there’s a wild party, people get dirty. People do whatever they want.
Aside from going to parties, others just tend to go to places and meet strangers. Some are going to bars and clubs and pick up any guy/lady they want. All of those mentioned above is because we have sexual fantasies to fulfill and having them is common (read more here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fighting-fear/201404/sexual-fantasies). But those were the times when we were free. Now it is different because of the pandemic.
Although people are already going online before the pandemic, our situation now is different and has a great impact. People who go out most of their time before are finding it hard to adjust now. Because of the lockdown/quarantine and the like that we have to undergo because of the current situation, we have no choice but to stay home. Sad for those who are alone- no kiss, no hug, no cuddle, no sex.
In relation to the sexual fantasies being common and some people’s unlikeliness to physically fulfill it with a partner, there are still ways to let it out! One of these is, of course, through masturbation. Check on the following tips on how to set up your mood and enjoy masturbating as much as you can:
Tip #1: Explore Your Body
Our body is covered with nerves. We can feel every single touch. There are sensitive parts too in which when you touch it, you feel sexual pleasures. It differs with different people, though.
For those who haven’t tried this (either you’re not yet introduced to it or you prefer to have a partner touch you), you might want to start exploring your body. Not all the time, you will have a partner available to touch you.
For those who already are a pro at touching their body, this is going to be easy, but it would be better if you explore more. You might have missed some spots other than the usual that could turn out to be more satisfying. So don’t stop exploring. You may also check this.
Tip #2: Make Up Stories In Your Mind
Some people get turned on by thinking about sex or any story that leads to sexual pleasures. You could also try this one.
It’s like having your porn site in your mind with you as the director, or if you want, you may even be the actor/actress! Also, you have unlimited options to think of whoever you want to make out with or any situation and position that excites you.
You may think of a barbecue party in the woods with one of your friends wearing a mini skirt and a tube top, which makes her cleavage very visible. She keeps staring at you as if she’s teasing. Then she leaned over and whispered something in your ear….. Yes, that’s it! Continue the story in your mind; let your imagination work. Enjoy!
Tip #3: Watch Sex Videos
For those who are not comfortable and confident in making stories in their mind, you may watch pre-recorded videos on porn sites. This is good, especially for those who are visual. You may do your thing while watching the video.
You may choose different types of videos depending on what turns you on. You may also watch your favorite videos again!
Tip #4: Experience Virtual Sex
Virtual sex includes sexting, phone sex, cybersex, sending of nudes, etc. This is a great way to set up your mood if you are tired already of watching all the scripted or pre-recorded videos or if you have a specific thing that you want to do.
Some are doing this with people they know, but others prefer to have virtual sex with strangers. There are sites with 100% free cams on the internet where you can talk with strangers from all over the world and make them perform anything you want – whatever gives you pleasure. You may lead and control the start and the end of your conversation, depending on how you would like it to go. And yes, you read it right, free cam sites!
So those are just some of the many tips you can get in fulfilling your sexual pleasures by yourself. You may start exploring now whatever suits you best. Good luck, and have fun!